People need a compelling reason to leave their homes and come experience your business with you. This feels like a very heavy lift. . You’re supposed to be exciting enough to pull people away from their phones, their families and the comfort of online shopping. You’re competing with everything else demanding their attention. Here’s the […]

People need a compelling reason to leave their homes and come experience your business with you. This feels like a very heavy lift.

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You’re supposed to be exciting enough to pull people away from their phones, their families and the comfort of online shopping. You’re competing with everything else demanding their attention.

Here’s the big secret: You don’t have to create all that energy yourself.

Piggyback on What’s Already Happening

Your community probably already has regular events that pull people out of their homes.

Art walks. First Fridays. Girls night out shopping events. Farmers markets. Chamber mixers.

People are already planning to attend these, or thinking about it. Some are already coming downtown or to your area.

Your job is to give them one more reason to show up.

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What Doesn’t Work: Just staying open during the community event

No experience. No transformation. Just… open, like you are every other day.

That’s not enough.

What Does Work: Make a Thing out of it

You have to create something special that happens during that regular community event. Here are ideas:

• Demos – Product demos, technique demonstrations, how-to sessions
• Mini services – super quick fashion nails, or 5 minute financial boost
• Meet the experts – A real estate agent hosting “meet the lenders.” A feed store bringing in a vet for cattle health Q&A during the farmers market.
• Workshops or mini-classes – Quick skill-building sessions people can actually use. Sounds like a lot for a shopping day, so keep it light and quick.
• Make and take projects – People love leaving with something they created
• Trunk shows or special collection reveals – Show merchandise you don’t normally carry
• Live entertainment – Music, performances, even personal star chart readings (yes, really – Gen Z is into astrology and all that)
• Tasting or sampling events – Let people experience your products
• Q&A sessions or “ask me anything” – Be available for real questions
• Behind-the-scenes tours – Show them what they don’t normally see (people love back room tours)
• Out of town big names – Bring in expertise people want to hear from

Pick one. Make it yours. Do a fresh edition of it every time that community event happens.

You become the tipping point

Someone was thinking about coming to art walk. Then they heard you’re doing that demo they’ve been curious about. Now they’re definitely coming.

You’re not competing for attention. You’re adding value to something people already plan to attend. Or at least thought about attending.

And here’s your new go-to move: When anyone expresses interest in your business but never seems to make it in person? Don’t just “follow up.” Invite them to your special thing during the next community event.

“Hey, I’m doing a live demo during First Friday – would love to see you there!”

You still have to do your regular marketing like mailing postcards, sharing photos, but you’re supercharging it with a deadline. And then you’re layering it with repeated messages.

“Our demo was packed! We’re doing another (a little different) next month!”

The Small Town Reality: Fewer people, less turnout

Yes, rural areas have fewer people. That means fewer potential attendees. Less momentum each time. It’s harder to keep events going on your own.

That’s exactly why piggybacking on existing events is brilliant for small towns. The event is already happening. People are already considering attending. You’re just giving them one more reason to come.

Start Small, Keep Going

1. Pick one existing community event.
2. Create one simple thing to offer during that event.
3. Commit to showing up consistently with your thing every single time.

That’s it. That’s the whole strategy.

You don’t need elaborate planning or big budgets. You need one good reason for people to experience your business, timed to when they’re already planning to be out.

The Opportunity: Most businesses aren’t doing this.

Some businesses might stay open during community events. But most are not creating experiences.

You will stand out.

When you’re the business that always has something interesting happening during art walk, or First Friday, or girls night out – people start planning around you. You become part of why they attend the community event in the first place.

So what’s your thing? And which community event will you tie it to?

Following up on the trend of rural experience-based retail, I spotted these Valentine’s Day offerings from my local women’s boutique, The Daisy Village. I’m seeing more and more use of the term “Bar” to refer to any assemble-your-own type experience. Think like a salad bar, where you pick just the parts you want, but for […]

Following up on the trend of rural experience-based retail, I spotted these Valentine’s Day offerings from my local women’s boutique, The Daisy Village. I’m seeing more and more use of the term “Bar” to refer to any assemble-your-own type experience. Think like a salad bar, where you pick just the parts you want, but for anything from western hats to charm bracelets.

Experiences are a competitive advantage for small town businesses.

The fun of picking your own ingredients and assembling your own product, plus knowing no one else will have one just like yours, equals an experience that online shopping can’t replace. That’s a competitive advantage.

They combined a pop-up from a bakery with a chance to customize and pickup your rose bouquet. Perfect Valentine’s Day retail ideas.

In the same email, the Daisy announced a new Charm Bar so you can pick the charms you want on your jewelry.

Assemble-your-own experiences build community.

While you’re shopping, picking out your own favorite pieces and assembling with your own personal touches, you’re also talking to other people and being physically present in the community. That helps build a strong local community. It’s part of why shopping locally matters to rural places.

I walked into a new local retail shop in Alva, Oklahoma, population 4,000. It’s called Bates & Co., and they are best known for their handcrafted hairbows for infants and kids. But when I walked into their store, they had all kinds of things under one roof: women’s clothes, fashion jewelry, travel accessories and more. […]

I walked into a new local retail shop in Alva, Oklahoma, population 4,000. It’s called Bates & Co., and they are best known for their handcrafted hairbows for infants and kids.

But when I walked into their store, they had all kinds of things under one roof: women’s clothes, fashion jewelry, travel accessories and more. It was a rural women lifestyle kind of shop. I asked the owner where she found all her products, did she go to the Dallas Markets to find them? She said no, she bought from the wholesale apps on her phone.

I was floored! I used to run a retail liquor store, and we could only purchase from approved wholesalers licensed by the state. I had no idea the power of a simple wholesale app on your phone!

So I bet there are other business owners or hopeful future store owners who don’t know that either!

Wholesale apps are your trade show that never closes

If you’ve only ever bought inventory through licensed distributors or in-person markets, this feels almost unreal. But for many retail categories — especially clothing, gifts, accessories, home décor, and boutique-style items — there are wholesale marketplaces that live right on your phone.

And no airfare or hotel bill.

That’s powerful in a town of 4,000.

But it also means you need to be a smart buyer.

Green flags: signs a wholesale app is worth your time

I did a little research on this, and I’m excited about the potential for rural retail businesses! If I were starting with these apps today, here’s what I’d look for first:

Clear wholesale requirements

Legit apps usually require:

• A business name
• An EIN or business registration
• Sometimes a resale certificate

That’s a good sign. It means they’re trying to keep retail shoppers out of the wholesale pool.

Transparent pricing and minimums

You should see:

• Wholesale prices clearly marked
• Reasonable minimum order quantities (MOQs)
• The ability to test with a small first order

You don’t need massive quantities in your small town boutique, so look for apps that understand that.

Real brand information

Look for:

• Brand story and location
• How long they’ve been on the platform
• Reviews from other shop owners

If you can’t tell who you’re buying from, slow down.

Shipping timelines you can live with

Some items ship in days. Others are preorder and ship in weeks. Both are fine — as long as it’s clearly stated, and as long as that works for your business.

Red flags: when to delete that app

These are the things that would make me nervous:

Prices that don’t seem right

If the “wholesale” price is what you’d expect to pay at Walmart, something’s off. Either quality will disappoint, or you’re not really buying wholesale.

No clear return or damage policy

Stuff happens in shipping. If there’s no explanation of what happens when it does, assume you’re on your own.

Retail customers mixed in

If the app openly sells single items to consumers and claims to be wholesale, that’s a warning sign. It puts you in direct competition with your own supplier.

Pressure tactics

Countdown clocks, “only 3 left!” warnings, or constant push notifications are designed to lead to bad buying decisions. Does it remind you of a gross online casino? Delete it and move on.

Use apps to multiply your local advantage

Small-town retailers like you actually have built-in advantages when it comes to using wholesale apps, advantages that big-city shops often don’t.

You don’t need to win on volume because you win by knowing your people.

You’re smaller. You’re closer to your customers. And you’re used to paying attention.

That makes these apps more useful to you, not less.

You can test without betting the farm

Big-city stores often need big orders to justify shelf space and staffing. They live and die on volume. In a rural shop, you can bring in a handful of scarves, see what happens, and decide from there.

That makes low minimum orders a feature, not a limitation.

You can move faster than chains

Corporate retail plans seasons months in advance. You can react in real time. If customers start asking for cute new bags or travel accessories, you can go looking that afternoon.

That kind of responsiveness is hard to match.

Fill gaps alongside your unique local flavor

Take a moment to appreciate the unique local flavor you create in your store. You offer experiences and items that can’t be bought online.

Your locally-produced items, personalization and special services give you an advantage.

In store classes, demonstrations and hands-on crafts are memorable experiences that no online competitor can copy.

Use these new apps to add even more value, not to replace your amazingness.

Wholesale apps drive down the cost of distance

In the past, rural retailers were fighting to catch up to trends because markets were far away, minimums were too high and there was always too much to do.

Wholesale apps flip that. You can now buy the same styles as a boutique in any big city, without leaving your store and without waiting for the next big trade show.

That doesn’t guarantee success, but it removes one huge barrier.

What’s your take?

If you’re using wholesale apps in a small town, I’d love to hear which ones you’ve tried and what surprised you. Or your challenges, tips or what to avoid.

Twenty years ago today, I hit “publish” on the first post here at SmallBizSurvival.com. I was sitting in the backroom of my liquor store in Alva, Oklahoma, population at the time of just under 5,000 and dropping. That very first post asked: ‘Can you build a growing small business in a declining small town?’ I’ve […]

Twenty years ago today, I hit “publish” on the first post here at SmallBizSurvival.com.

I was sitting in the backroom of my liquor store in Alva, Oklahoma, population at the time of just under 5,000 and dropping.

That very first post asked: ‘Can you build a growing small business in a declining small town?’ I’ve spent twenty years proving the answer is yes.

I started this blog because I’m a small town entrepreneur, and I believed then (still do) that small town entrepreneurs have a lot to teach other businesses. When local entrepreneurs prosper, they help their small town prosper, too.

That was January 14, 2006. A lot has changed since then. A lot of other blogs have come and gone. But we’re still here.

The People Who Made This Possible

I can’t talk about twenty years without talking about the people who’ve contributed their knowledge, their stories, and their time to this rural corner of the internet.

My mom, Glenna Mae Hendricks (Maesz), shared tax tips and accounting wisdom that helped so many small business owners sleep better at night. She’s since passed on, leaving a real legacy.

Jeanne Cole was one of our earliest contributors, a friend from long before I started the blog who showed up when it mattered.

Glenn Muske brought decades of Extension service experience and true expertise on micro-businesses.

Deb Brown, my co-founder at SaveYour.Town, has contributed her retail knowledge and real-world small town business experience.

And there have been so many guest contributors over the years: Jon Swanson, H.E. James, Zane Safrit, Barry Moltz, Sheila Scarborough, Marci Penner, John Warrillow, Shannon Ehlers and Scott Meyer.

What Blogging Brought Me

Here’s what I didn’t expect when I started: blogging was the step that made everything on my career goal list possible. (Of course I had a career goal list! If you know me, then you know.)

Chris Brogan was my first blog friend. He got me involved in his early podcasting projects starting with Grasshopper New Media in 2006. Then other media ventures like Owner Magazine. He’s the one who convinced me to join Twitter in 2006 when it was brand new (my user number was 10,318), back before hashtags or even @ names existed. Chris is really the biggest reason blogging turned into more for me over the years. In 2020, he came back to guest post here. Thanks, Chris!

Then there was Liz Strauss of Successful-Blog.com. She handed out Successful Outstanding Blogger awards and called us SOBs, which was hilarious. Liz connected me with so many other people. At her SOBCon event, I met Barry Moltz, who became my co-author for our award-winning book Small Town Rules. Liz got me early speaking roles at BlogWorld Expo in 2008 and ’09. We spoke together as a duo at SXSW in 2010. Rest in peace, Liz.

Those connections led to more connections. Speaking opportunities. My work with Sheila Scarborough creating Tourism Currents. Eventually, the work Deb Brown and I do at SaveYour.Town. The Survey of Rural Challenges that started as a topic survey for this blog and has now reached over 2,200 rural folks. My second book The Idea Friendly Guide. Speaking engagements from local community centers to Harvard Kennedy School and international stages.

None of that would have happened without me hitting publish on January 14, 2006.

What We’ve Built Together

The recognition has been humbling. Top 10 Best Small Business Blogs by Feedly and FeedSpot, as of today. Top 25 by Technorati for a brief moment during the height of the blog competition. Selected for syndication through LexisNexis, Thomson Business Intelligence, MyVenturePad. Named a Small Business Influencer multiple years running and a Power Player in Technology Business Media.

Our long-running Brag Basket, where people shared their own successes. The podcasts, video streams and experiments. The thousands of posts from the practical to the fun.

Guest columns at US News and World Report, SmallBusiness.com and SmallBizTrends.com. (SmallBizTrends also still plugging along after 20 years!) Getting to judge small business grant entries for Intuit. Attending conferences like the National Association of Seed and Venture Funds on a media pass.

The emails from business owners who tried something they read here and it worked. The small town entrepreneurs who found practical advice they could actually use. The rural communities that discovered they weren’t alone.

Still Here, Still Rural

A lot has changed in twenty years of blogging and twenty years of rural entrepreneurship. But the core truth remains: small towns can thrive when their local businesses prosper.

Alva’s population made a resurgence in the mid 2010s (just one more oil boom), before dropping back below 5,000. I don’t have the liquor store anymore, but I’m still writing from real experience, my own successes and failures as a lifelong entrepreneur. Still focused on practical steps you can put into action right away. Still believing that when you take care of your business, you’re taking care of your community.

Here’s to the next twenty years of small biz survival.

Thanks for being part of this journey.

How the Roofer Nailed Marketing Guest Post by Chris Brogan Let me tell you about an experience I had in a little diner in Lewiston, Maine. I sat at the counter of a busy Maine diner slinging breakfast to a crowd of mostly locals, it seemed. One guy a few seats away from me did […]

How the Roofer Nailed Marketing

Guest Post by Chris Brogan

Let me tell you about an experience I had in a little diner in Lewiston, Maine.

I sat at the counter of a busy Maine diner slinging breakfast to a crowd of mostly locals, it seemed. One guy a few seats away from me did roof work. I know this because over the course of my meal, maybe eight different people interrupted him to ask him to check out a job they had in mind for him.

I couldn’t ignore any of this, so I asked, “I don’t want to interrupt, but you sure are getting a lot of business just sitting here at the counter. You don’t advertise or anything, do you?”

“Nope,” he said, pushing some eggs into his mouth and chewing for a little. “I come here for breakfast and lunch every single day they’re open. And every day, someone asks me if I can look at a job. Easy as that.”

Jim Katzman wrote a great article on Medium about creating swag that customers actually want. One of his tips was “Leverage Local Pride.” That got me thinking: Local products would make the best swag. Local products are easier Instead of designing a batch of custom pens or ordering another lot of logo coffee mugs, walk […]

Jim Katzman wrote a great article on Medium about creating swag that customers actually want. One of his tips was “Leverage Local Pride.”

That got me thinking: Local products would make the best swag.

Local products are easier

Instead of designing a batch of custom pens or ordering another lot of logo coffee mugs, walk into a local shop and buy what they’ve got. Local honey. Locally made soap. Beef jerky from a nearby producer. A small art or craft piece.

You skip the minimum order quantities and the wait time. You support another local business. And you hand people something they’ll actually use and remember.

Whether you’re at a trade show, conference or heading to a special event, you can share your local flavor rather than “yet another water bottle.”

People love local products

I often give visitors Shawnee Mills cornbread mix packets when they come through Oklahoma or I visit them. Cornbread is an important cultural food to me. Even though I live a few hours from Shawnee, it’s local enough. And people love it when I share stories about my grandmother making cornbread.

That’s what local products do. At their best, they tell a story about your place.

Head Country BBQ Sauce in Ponca City, Oklahoma, once made mini 3-ounce bottles specifically as swag. Small enough to meet TSA liquid rules, so visitors could take it home even when flying.

Make it yours and theirs

You can co-brand if you want: add your sticker or tag to local sauces, seasoning mix, or whatever fits your business. Or just hand it over as-is with your business card (or your loyalty card).

Those Head Country sample bottles included some promotional text about Ponca City, done in cooperation with their economic development team. (Go, Ponca!)

Shawnee Mills actually does custom mixes, and that would be so much cooler than a generic water bottle with your logo.

When I managed a liquor store and was participating in social media conferences, I took mini 50ml bottles of liquor, added a little card from Moo printers, and used that as my calling card. People would fight over them!

It’s better marketing

When you give someone local products, you’re not just promoting your business. You’re showing that you support other local businesses. That’s good marketing for you and good for your community.

Next time you need swag, look local first

Walk around your downtown. Check out local makers and producers. See what’s already on the shelves at local shops. Look regionally and check out “made in your state” products.

You’ll find something better than another notebook, and you’ll be supporting the businesses around you at the same time.

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I’ve been in business a long time now, from retail to service to ag, and I’ve learned some things about wrapping up one year and getting ready for the next. Some of it I learned the hard way! Whether you run your business on paper, desktop software, mobile or cloud services, there are common tasks […]

I’ve been in business a long time now, from retail to service to ag, and I’ve learned some things about wrapping up one year and getting ready for the next. Some of it I learned the hard way!

Whether you run your business on paper, desktop software, mobile or cloud services, there are common tasks that need doing at year-end. Here’s your checklist.

Must do Jan 1

These are the ones you can’t easily do later, so you don’t want to put them off.

The good news: these are the easy ones.

Count your inventory.

If you sell or make products, take an inventory of all products and raw materials on hand at the turn of the year. You need the value of what it cost you. If you use a point-of-sale (POS) system, write down the end of year inventory total on January 1.

Why you have to write it down: Most POS systems only keep a running (current) inventory total. If you forget to write it down now, you’ll have to figure backwards from all purchases and sales since Jan 1. Trust me, this is not a fun job.

When I managed a liquor store, we took advantage of being closed on New Year’s Day to do a full count of our inventory and correct our POS records. It didn’t take long with one person counting, and one running the laptop to make corrections.

Record end of year mileage.

If you use your vehicle for business, write down your mileage at the end of the year. This provides an important baseline for your mileage records all year long. I always put this on my online calendar so I can find it easily.

Get these done during January

These are the tasks that need to be done soon, but don’t have to happen on January 1. But don’t let it slide, or you’ll pay for it with rushed days during tax filing season.

How to get this done: Right now, commit time on each Friday during January to work through the checklist until you’re all finished.

1. Financial Data

Backup accounting data in two formats.

Yes, this applies whether you use paper records, software, app or a cloud service. Every data service is subject to being interrupted at the worst possible time or even closing down with no warning.

Hot tip: Do an export of the data in your accounting system’s backup format and then also in CSV. So if you use Quickbooks, let it back up in the special .qbw format, then do another backup in CSV.

Run accounting reports in PDF.

Run year-end financial reports as PDFs. If you need this data in a few years from now, it will be easy to look at a PDF report that shows the answer in an easy-to-read format. If all you have is a CSV, you’ll get to re-import it in whatever system you’re using then, reformat and clean up the data, then run a report to see the answer.

This also gives you insurance against changes in your accounting service. I can’t even tell you how many different accounting services and programs I’ve used over the years!

Here are the key year-end reports to run:

• Profit and Loss, Jan 1 – Dec 31 (PDF)
• Balance Sheet, dated Jan 1 and another dated Dec 31 (PDF)
• Detail of every transaction, Jan 1 – Dec 31 (PDF, this will be long)
• Export all data as a backup (standard and CSV)

Run payroll reports.

Save these as PDFs as well. Payroll reports are critical tax documents. Do not lose these.

• Payroll details for each employee, Jan 1 – Dec 31 (PDF)
• Payroll tax filings, Jan 1 – Dec 31 (PDF)
• Export all data as a backup (standard and CSV)

Download online banking and payment transactions.

Make sure you have downloaded a PDF report of all transactions for the year. Your bank may restrict how long statements are available, so download all of last year’s bank statements now.

• Banking statements
• Online billpay details
• All transactions in CSV

It’s easy to overlook payments received via online services, so dig deep. Did you accept payments anywhere? Get a backup of that data.

• PayPal
• Square
• Stripe
• Venmo
• Zelle
• Cash App
• Any online transaction processor

Download copies of bills.

We all do business in so many places that it’s tough to keep up. Since bank statements alone aren’t enough to satisfy the IRS, you’ll want PDFs of these and any other online financial data. Make a list of these so you can refer back to it next year.

• Utility bills
• Credit card statements
• Insurance bills
• Supplier invoices
• Tax filings

Update employee and contractor data.

Do you have a current mailing address for every employee and former employee you paid during this year? You’ll need that when you issue your W2 forms.

Many small businesses rely on independent contractors who may or may not live nearby. For US small businesses, you’ll need to send 1099 forms to each contractor you paid more than a few hundred during the year. (Check with a tax pro for the details.) One thing you can do right now is make sure you have updated data on your contractors.

• Ask employees and former employees for any updates to their W-4 form or mailing address
• Ask independent contractors for any updates to their W-9 form

If you don’t have those W-4 or W-9 forms, now is the time to get them.

2. Backup your data

Download cloud files.

Your small business probably relies on cloud solutions for collaboration, invoicing, email, and other key functions. Review your cloud services and download copies of all critical files and data. Make a list of your current cloud services to make this task easier again next year.

• Password management (1Password, Bitwarden, etc.)
• Contacts, customer lists
• Google Drive/Docs
• Microsoft OneDrive/Office 365
• iCloud
• Dropbox
• Any cloud service with important data

Download data from business platforms.

If you use an online business platform like Shopify, Etsy, Podia, or Squarespace, download all your records and contacts.

Do you have an email newsletter? Download your list of email addresses and all detail as a backup.

If you use social media for your business, back up contacts, critical messages, and business transactions from Facebook Business Suite, Instagram, or other platforms.

These platforms are always changing and vary widely, so use your judgment about what’s critical for your business. If figuring out all your platforms and data turns into a big job this year, make yourself a checklist so it’s easier next January.

Run off your calendar.

Your business calendar documents your travel, meetings and more related to your work. It’s a vital business record. If you use a paper planner, set a consistent and secure location to keep the old calendars available for at least five years. If you use an online calendar:

• Save a PDF of your entire year’s calendar

Then check the formatting, to be sure it’s readable. You probably have to break it down by month or by week, or even by day, in order to make all the detail visible.

This one report has saved me so much trouble over the years. Always save your calendar.

Back up your phone.

Your phone holds critical business data: contacts, photos, and important messages. For most businesses, it’s probably enough to back up iPhones to iCloud and Android phones to Google Drive. Make sure that backup is current and includes your photos, contacts, and any critical business messages.

Backup your files: don’t skip this

You’ve just collected a lot of critical financial data for your business. Don’t risk losing those files.

• Assemble all these files into a single folder dated with the year
• Send a copy to cloud backup such as Google Drive, OneDrive, or Dropbox
• Keep a copy on a USB thumb drive or an external hard drive separate from your computer

That last step – the physical backup – is more important than ever. We all rely on cloud services now, but having your own copy means you’re protected if anything happens to those services or your computer. That’s another lesson I’ve learned the hard way!

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At the LaunchRuralOK Small Business Resource event in Alva, I overheard the owner of Millie Coffee from Fairview, Oklahoma, talking to a service provider she wanted to work with. She  apologized for not having business cards with her, then handed over her shop’s loyalty card instead. I looked over my shoulder and said out loud, […]

At the LaunchRuralOK Small Business Resource event in Alva, I overheard the owner of Millie Coffee from Fairview, Oklahoma, talking to a service provider she wanted to work with. She  apologized for not having business cards with her, then handed over her shop’s loyalty card instead.

I looked over my shoulder and said out loud, “That’s actually genius.”

Here’s why her loyalty card beats a regular business card.

It gives people a reason to visit

A business card sits in someone’s pocket or gets filed away. Maybe they’ll call you someday. Maybe.

A loyalty card? That’s an invitation with a built-in incentive. “Come see me at my shop. Get a punch. Come back again.”

Bonus: Cross off one punch right there because they met you personally. You’re not just handing them a card. You’re starting a relationship and giving them credit for it.

You’re already paying to print them

Loyalty cards cost about the same as business cards. Why print two separate things when one card can do both jobs?

Put your contact info on your loyalty card: phone number, address, email, hours, whatever you’d put on a business card. Now you’ve got one card that does double duty.

Do you already have cards? 

If you run a coffee shop, car wash, retail store, massage therapy business, hair salon, spa, ice cream shop, or any business where you want people to come back, you probably already have loyalty cards printed.

Those are your business cards now.

Start using them

Grab a stack of your loyalty cards and take them to your next chamber meeting, networking event, or business gathering. Anywhere you’d normally hand out a business card, hand out your loyalty card instead.

And when you order your next batch of loyalty cards, make sure your contact info is on there. You’ll have the most genius business cards in town.

I grew up in a small town in Maine, but I don’t think of myself as a small-town guy. My parents were involved in local community service groups. My Dad was the Cub Scout leader, a member of the Jaycees and the Elks club. And I remember helping him and other volunteers build a kiddie […]

I grew up in a small town in Maine, but I don’t think of myself as a small-town guy.

My parents were involved in local community service groups. My Dad was the Cub Scout leader, a member of the Jaycees and the Elks club. And I remember helping him and other volunteers build a kiddie pool, which literally changed the town park’s landscape.

The town I live in now isn’t small. And while I’ve been part of our local theater and coached youth basketball, I am not nearly as involved as my parents were in shaping the future of the town I grew up in.

Honestly, the idea of effecting change here seems more daunting; the thought of all the hoops, of filling forms, getting approval from committees, not to mention dealing with naysayers, doesn’t exactly inspire someone to take action.

And then, I cracked open Becky McCray’s new book and read the beginning of the Idea Friendly Creed.

“We are a community of possibilities, not of problems. We are action takers. We are optimistic.”

Those lines alone got me nodding my head, and they set the stage for a book filled with everything the subtitle of The Idea Friendly Guide promises: “Practical, Immediate Steps to Break Free from Old-Way Thinking and Transform Your Community’s Future.”

I’m also partial to some of the books’ more irreverent encouragement.

“We don’t care about titles or who holds official positions. The people who do hold titles may not think like us. That’s ok. No one can stop us from doing the little things that really matter.”

The Method 

The Idea Friendly method is simple.

“Gather Your Crowd with an idea that entices others.

Build Connections to turn your crowd into a powerful network.

Take Small Steps to accomplish your idea together.”

For years, I (and others) have been telling Becky that this method would work really well in all sorts of scenarios. She knows we’re right, but it’s really meant for you or for me to use to shape the future of our communities.

A while back, I wrote about taking a trash bag with me to my local fishing spot to clean up some of the cans and other trash people left behind. I also hung a trash bag from a tree and filled it with a few cans to get things started. A few weeks later, it had more trash in it, rather than scattered on the ground.

It was Becky and her method that inspired me to, in some small way, shape a tiny corner of my community. Because as the Idea Friendly Creed says,  “We create the moments that show what this town could be and the places that take our breath away, if only just for a moment. What we create doesn’t have to be permanent to create possibility.”

I think that’s one of the things I appreciate most about Idea Friendly. That we can take small practical steps, that what we create can be measured in moments. And by creating those moments, those small wins, we have something we can build on.

Of course, small towns need businesses to grow. I think that’s where Idea Friendly thrives because, as great as those start-up competitions and pitch contests might be, I think I prefer the Idea Friendly perspective.

“We’d rather help 10 people try their own ideas than to hold a vote and tell everyone to support the “winner.” That might be more efficient, but efficiency isn’t our goal. Community is our goal. And we try everyone’s ideas.”

Imagine a town (or any place) where community is the goal. Sounds like a good place to start a business.

Have a great week.

Rob

P.S. Go grab a copy of The Idea Friendly Guide. It doesn’t matter if you’re not a small-town person; it’s a damn good book.

By Stephanie Ward, Firefly Coaching Caring isn’t something you can do if you’re only using it as a tactic. You can’t fake caring, either you do or you don’t. The good news is that we all have the capacity to care. It’s a state of being that you can tap into, just like gratitude. We […]

By Stephanie Ward, Firefly Coaching

Caring isn’t something you can do if you’re only using it as a tactic.

You can’t fake caring, either you do or you don’t.

The good news is that we all have the capacity to care.

It’s a state of being that you can tap into, just like gratitude.

We would probably be more caring, more often, if we just thought about it.

Like anything, it has to be a priority, something you are consciously thinking about and want to do.

So how can you show potential clients, your current clients, and the people in your network that you care?

Here are some ideas to get you started.

1) Listen

We all want to be heard. My favorite habit from Stephen Covey’s book, The 7 Habits of Highly Successful People, is Habit #5: First seek to understand, then to be understood.

Listen deeply to people when you communicate with them. Make sure they feel that you hear them and clearly get what they are saying.

2) Ask How It’s Going

Ask your clients about their experience with your products and services. Ask them if they are satisfied, if they are receiving what they expected.

If things aren’t up to snuff, do everything you can within your power to make the situation right. And then do even more to exceed their expectations.

3) Offer Help

If you see that someone is struggling with something, offer to help.

Can you share a resource that will help? Make an introduction? Review something?

Being helpful is a wonderful way to show you care.

4) Check In

Check in with people for no reason other than to say hello and see how they are doing.

You can drop a note in the post, call, or send an email.

5) Give Support & Encouragement

If you know someone has an upcoming event, book launch, speaking gig, or an equivalently big deal on the horizon – send them a message of encouragement.

Caring about the success of others is fun and easy to do.

6) Share Their Work

As the Salvation Army says, Sharing is Caring. If you care about someone, and the work she is doing, share it.

Social media makes it a piece of cake to do. So take a few minutes to share the creations of others.

7) Keep Your Promises

In business, your word is everything. Caring about someone means keeping your promises.

Keeping your promises builds trust and lets people know they can count on you.

8) Say Thank You

If someone does something kind for you, show you care by saying thank you.
Showing your appreciation goes a long way and yet, it’s another thing we sometimes forget to do.

The funny thing about caring about people is that in your effort to give, you will also receive. It feels good.

How do you show people you care?

© Stephanie Ward, reprinted by permission

Photo PD by Alex Starnes, via nappy

Stephanie Ward is the Marketing Coach for Entrepreneurs who want to create meaningful and prosperous businesses. Grab your FREE copy of the special report ’7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time’ plus business building tips, at: .

Which one of these ideas will you try? How do you show your clients you care? Share your experiences, thoughts, and questions in the comments section below.